True or False? Sex is NO laughing matter?

Are we too "straight" in the bedroom?
Should we be giving ourselves permission
to be more goofy?

Is there a place for humour in the bedroom? How about in porn or erotica? I wonder sometimes if we don't take ourselves too seriously when it comes to sex. So often we're more concerned about making the right impression, or being afraid that laughter in the bedroom might be mis-interpreted.

Occasionally I post photos that strike me in an odd sort of way and I caption them with word or thought balloons. I call these posts "Sunday Morning Funnies" and perhaps they amuse others, or not. Of course, we don't all share the same sense of humour, just as we don't all have the same tastes in sexual appetites. I guess my question is, can we allow ourselves to indulge our sense of play and share a laugh or two where sex is concerned?

Have you ever had the sort of let-your-hair-down relationship where you felt free enough to: stick out your tongue, waggle your naughty bits, make racing car noises while caressing your lover, wear a funny hat or clown nose while fucking, talk dirty in a ridiculous-sounding voice or accent?

How would sex be for you if you tried to crack each other up sometime?

Fast Web Browsers Rule for Porn Surfing

So much porn, so little time. When it comes to finding all the porn the web has to offer, surfing speed is essential. Hi-speed Internet connections are a given, but can a browser give you an edge in performance that ultimately leads to greater satisfaction? You bet!

The Joys of Self-made Porn

Would you cum on Carol Cox?

Dig around long enough and eventually, you'll find every possible kink and fetish on the internet.  And if you dig deeply enough you'll discover a large enough following for said kinks and fetishes to be considered movements.

For a number of years I've enjoyed sampling from the wide variety of amateur porn available. In that category, as with all categories, there are distinct subsets. With the introduction of cellphone cams and other affordable digital cameras available it didn't take long for the category of "self-shot" porn to become popular. That's where the subject(s) (in various states of undress) either turns the camera on themselves or takes a picture of themselves in a mirror. There is a high volume of this form of amateur product mostly of younger women (although some men do it too), and of course rising up in response is yet another subset of the "self-shot" genre of men wanking off onto these and other photos of women.

One Woman's Erotica is Another Man's Romance

The more I surf the web the more I'm reminded that point-of-view is a subjective thing. We all know how much of a hot button a word like "pornography" is, particularly when it comes to describing or defining what exactly pornography is. It should come as no surprise then, that the same should be true when it comes to interpreting what different people might mean when using terms like "erotic" or "erotica". Some see no difference between erotica and porn, others think of erotica as porn-lite. It might be a little more soft-core, with better packaging, but still requires a brown paper wrapper if you want to take it on the bus.

If porn is at one end of the scale and erotica at the other, imagine what happens when you introduce the word "romance" into the mix. You would expect things to become watered down significantly. Especially when you're talking about fiction. Recently I had an opportunity to see for myself if that were true when I surfed over to the Blushing Books website. I found them by clicking a blog link for a spanking blog. Blushing Books do have a blog to promote their ebooks, which are spanking and BDSM themed. Their slogan is "We'll make your cheeks blush!" This seemed promising.

Satisfaction Guaranteed? Leave it to the Pros!

Having spent a fair amount of time trolling adult websites, I've often wondered if some of the site members were truly legit. How many times would I get a response to chat from a lady right as my dime was about to expire? Or how about the winks, flirts and nudges from women too good to be true. If only I had a full membership, I could view their full profile and make their acquaintance. Yeah, right.