"Nothing drives traffic to my site more than some poor woman being slapped. I really don't know why..."
Perhaps I haven't found the right partner for that sort of thing. There's a certain amount of desire and commitment required to cross that fine line between pleasure and pain. I can understand why it so often manifests in the form of a lifestyle. But like so many pleasures I can take it or leave it as the mood strikes me. There's little about sex, or kink that doesn't attract or arouse me, but none of it is essential to my getting off.
What about you? Does spanking play a part in your intimacy? How necessary is it to your own pleasure?